Hey Folks,
From time to time I’ll drop a post with links to other things I have going on across the web. In case you didn’t catch it on SBM, I recently had the chance to work with J, the host of the Up for Discussion podcast. We had a great conversation on a few topics, but the episode you’ll find here is titled “All Women Care About Is the D.” Check it out when you have some time. J’s a great host with a promising future. Support positive people!
I also had the opportunity to write a collabo post with the team from the popular Brothers with No Game blog. We titled this one “10 Things We Thought We Knew About Women.” Peep it, leave a comment, and share it. These guys were finalists in the 2011 Black Weblog Awards in 5+ categories. Shout out to the fellas across the pond for reaching out.
Slim
Thank you again for not only being a guest on the podcast, but being willing to work with me Slim. I appreciate that more than you know. I really enjoyed our conversation and I look forward to working with you again in the near future. I hear the people are calling for a second part to our discussion. We may have to put things in motion to make that happen. Let me know if you’d be interested.
I’m about to head over and check out your guest post now. Thanks again Slim!
So I listened to the podcast and I must say that I agree with both of you gentlemen. Me, being a woman, has always admitted that women in general get on my nerves. We are the most indecisive yet most vocal group there is. We have no idea about what we need in a man. So we run around searching, but all we get is what we want. Then when the man that we need in our life finally shows up we find something wrong with him. This how we stay with Mr. Wrong never to see Mr. Right for who he really is.
Now when it comes to being blinded by some great D I have a different viewpoint. Can I say *pause* after that sentence? Anywho, I will admit that I might just love sex more than the average woman. And as with most things I love I want to know all there is to know about it…this mean exploration and research. The main problem that most women, who claim he was bad in bed, share is they don’t know their own body. I think that women also think of sex as one sided, blow my mind or you suck. There are so many sides to sex and so many ways to be reach that bliss. I really don’t understand how a woman can have a completely awful D experience. Now I will agree that there coulda been bad parts, but the whole thing?!? Come on B! If that is the case I blame both parties involved. It was not just his D that was bad, but you also failed my dear. You failed to find a way to make sure that your body got something out of the “episode”. I make sure that no matter what I am never left unsatisfied. I find his strong point and make him drive it home. WOMEN NEED TO LEARN THEIR BODIES!
On a final note I will say that my best sex partner did not have the best skills. What we had was the strongest emotional connection that nothing could compare to. You asked if a woman would be willing to go without sex until marriage with a man: I’m part of the < 10%. I am all about emotional/spiritual connection over the physical kind. Emo has trumped every back blowing-touch the stars experience I've ever had. Actually the first time a man sent me to the moon intimidated the hell outta me. It made me feel like I could never live up to him and his skill level. An average 1st time is alright with me because it normally gets better as we go on.
“You asked if a woman would be willing to go without sex until marriage with a man: I’m part of the < 10%. I am all about emotional/spiritual connection over the physical kind. "
Hear, hear!
Thanks for dropping by and leaving this deep comment. It’s 1 of the most thoughtful and detailed ones I’ve seen since starting up this site. I am in complete agreement with you and this is something I plan to talk about in a future post on Uptown or SBM depending how it turns out.